[Content Warning: Discussion of rape, sexual violence, racism, misogyny, etc.]
Sorry about the long delay between posts. I’ve been trying to find the words for this one and they just weren’t coming.
Today I want to talk about fantasies, kinks, and fetishes. This is a hard topic for me to write about, because I wish I could simply tell you that your fantasies and preferences are 100% fine and good.
I can’t, though.
Don’t get me wrong; fantasies can be wonderful and healthy, and everyone has them. But they also tend to reflect the worst parts of society: violence, racism, sexism, ableism, and more. In this post, I want to talk about how to turn your ugly fantasy into something healthy for you and your partners.